18 Tips, How to be the Best Husband?

Husband and wife both are equally important to run a family. None of them is more important, both play an equal role to make the family or to destroy the family. Its make no difference whether both are working or one of them is not working and staying at home. Usually, in most of the cultures, a man gives more importance to his values, friends, relatives, and status and ignores his wife. This text is focused particularly on the man dominated families. Some tips to be the best husband are discussed here. Read and think about these tips and save your family from getting worse.

1. Never shout on your wife whether you are alone or in public. It hurts her a lot and makes her silent. Anger and shouting never give any solution to a problem. To get the solution you can either discuss the matter with your partner or yourself analyze the matter and get the solution.
2. Don’t find fault with the meal cooked by your wife. You can’t imagine how much pain a woman faces while cooking the food. She never complains about so many cuts and burns she so many times gone through while cooking the meal. She never complains about the sweating she faces while cooking the food. If she can eat the food why can’t you? Often, in hotels also you find food which is not worth eating but you enjoy the food without complaint. Read: — How to Live a Happy Life by SHIVPURANA
3. Moreover, raw materials brought by you may also be the cause of less taste in food. Every woman is different and has different qualities. All women cook food differently in different tastes. Always, praise the food cooked by your wife.
4. Never criticize your partner before anyone else. She is your wife, therefore, manage the relationship yourself.
5. Never compare your partner with any other woman. These activities make the situation worsen and increase bitterness in the relations. Doesn’t matter how good is another woman, but your wife is the best for you. She is the great blessing of God to you.
6. If your wife is a working woman, cooperate with her in-home activities. Share her work and give her some relax. You enjoy your holidays, but she has no holiday.
7. If your wife is a housewife even then share her work at home. Give full cooperation in all the works. The woman staying at home also has a lot of work to manage. Don’t regard her work as less important than the work of a working woman.
8. She lost her beauty and become aged in making your home, giving birth to your children and in doing other household works, therefore, always appreciate her as much as you can even in the old age also.
9. Never share your love, affection, and care with any other woman except your wife as it is a sin and it is illegal too.
10. Always, be a decent person for your wife. Be a good person and always behave with love, care, and respect for your wife. She did a lot of sacrifices just because of you. Understand her and her affection by mind, heart, and soul.
11. Never hide anything from your wife. Share all the secrets with your partner. She holds a very big heart for you. She can pardon all your sins and misconducts.
12. Help her in her all the activities whether that is worshiping, study, business or any other thing. She is your real friend also.
13. She will be with you not only before the death but after the death also if in case you departed her earlier. She is the one who will work for you and please your soul after leaving the world too. So, respect and care her more than anyone else.
14. Never try to control her with your money. She has a complete right on your money also. God has given you money to use the money jointly.
15. Don’t criticize her parents, sisters, and brothers before her or before anyone else. It hurts her a lot.
16. Never open her weaknesses before anyone else. Give her complete respect, care, and security. She sacrificed her whole life for you, therefore, this is her right and she deserves it.
17. Always love your wife and show love too. Every woman likes to hear it again and again. Whenever possible give small gestures of love and gifts. It makes the life beautiful and your home a place of paradise.

1. The places where a woman is loved, respected and cared for are the place where God and Goddesses live. No worship and alike activities are accepted and flourished where woman are not happy. The home where a woman weeps is trashed due to the curses of the woman.

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Originally published at www.lifeinvedas.com on August 4, 2018.